Your limiting mindset is...
Supporting others is your calling in life. You seem to give endlessly, but sometimes you’re left feeling stretched a bit thin, and maybe even unappreciated.
It can be jarring and upsetting for someone who loves to love others when your offerings aren’t appreciated. Resentment can sneak up on you and have you feeling irritable or, worse, lead to burnout!
Believe or not, resentment is a signal that you need some self-care.
When your love and support are turned outward and leave you drained and angry, it’s time to look at your own worth and how you can align yourself to get what you want, and what you truly deserve.
You see, as a loving, supportive person, it’s easy for others to take advantage of your generous heart.
But why does that mean you so often have to come in last?
Are you guilty of being a chronic people pleaser?
Let’s tick some boxes!
☑️ Know that having low self-worth is a problem.
☑️ Have a seriously hard time saying ‘no’
☑️ Are always the first to volunteer, even if you’re too busy
☑️ Struggle to make good decisions for yourself
☑️ Know you deserve better but still have uncertainty
☑️ Sometimes interpret feedback as criticism
☑️ Feel like you can’t do anything right
☑️ Get burned out and overwhelmed easily
☑️Want to identify the barriers to regaining your own self worth
If you tick a few of those boxes, chances are good you could use some me time and some practice learning to say “NO”.
“When you say yes to others, make sure you aren’t saying no to yourself.” — Paulo Coehlo
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Hi there, friend. I’m Erika Baum, Denver, Colorado's Life Coach, and Non-Violent Communication (NVC) educator.
I see a common theme sabotaging my clients' personal growth. Limiting beliefs stand between them and the life they dreamed of.
It’s my mission to eradicate toxic mindsets one self-actualizer at a time.
Modern coaching is designed to create self-awareness so you can better understand yourself and to give you tools to manage better some of the areas in your life where you’ve struggled in the past.
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